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No. 7771
* The simple obsessional is an individual who has had a previous relationship with the victim and tries to keep him/her, that is, one who refuses to accept that a relationship is over. It is possible that during the course of the relationship that existed, this type of individual had been emotionally abusive to his/her partner. In Geberth research [2], this group of bullies is the largest, at 47%, and poses the greatest threat to the victim.
* The second type shows an obsessive love, with little easier to establish personal relationships, and in some cases may suffer mental illnesses such as schizophrenia or bipolar disorder. It is the stalker who pursues a famous person and has no contact with the victim beyond the limits of his/her own mind. Is the second largest group, according to Geberth,[2] with 43% of those bullies.
* The third, Erotomania, differs in the sense that he/her believes it is the victim who is in love, and chases the victim.
* The fourth group consists of subjects with so-called false victim syndrome (Hickey [3]), which is characterized by harassing the victim.[4]
The psychological stalker is said to be driven by feelings of inferiority and guilt, which the stalker feels for not having attributes he considers to be ideal.[5] Physical, intellectual, or emotional defects generate a feeling of inferiority, for which the stalker attempts to compensate by developing a superiority complex. This makes the stalker live within the fiction that he possesses values, attributes and qualities that he truly lacks, denying them to others defensively. In defense of his own sense of superiority, he denies that others may possess these positive qualities, but when an individual who really does have these characteristics enters the stalker's environment, it clashes with, and poses a danger to, his inflated sense of self. The reaction to that painful reality often involves denial and attempts to eliminate the source of cognitive dissonance, sometimes through physical aggression. The aim is to remove the victim from the psychological horizon because his or her skills pose to the stalker the risk of psychological destabilization.[5]
According to I�aki Zabala Pi�uel[5] the bullies are "people who have a profound personality change. They are individuals who have no internal moral standard, that does not hesitate to eliminate a competitor. The harasser may also be a narcissistic individual, with a deep inferiority complex, but, to others, always saying how much it is worth. These subjects tend to be surrounded by mediocre people or submissive to confirm this idea they have of themselves. In fact, often low- bright, but very clever at manipulating others, both to get their cooperation anonymous and silent, as to abuse. They are experts in human weakness. They are true psychopaths, lack the capacity to take the place of others. His mind also works in reverse. The tears produced compassion on them will not. Signs of weakness are pivotal in emphasizing his aggressive behavior. These psychopaths trying to humiliate, annul, and destroy its victim. To do this, do not hesitate to attack verbally or physically and invent all sorts of rumors and slander. It manipulates others and support their public lynching. Mobbing causes one in five suicides in Europe."
According to Rodriguez Lopez in his book "Mobbing at work" [6], he defines these people as "bitter, frustrated, envious, jealous or selfish, taking one or several or all of these traits to a greater or lesser degree. They are needed admiration, recognition and prominence, and they want to appear, or appear to rise even when you simply want to hurt another person or void."
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