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ololJokerlolo 5:04 am
Okay so in one of the last threads someone did send your mom messages with audio of you saying you were a pedophile, and claiming to have molested Amber, regardless of whether or not you did it, how do you think she's going to respond when she hears that?
To her Avon number or whatever.
hagurumon31 5:05 am
she'll probably be pissed, I'll have to explain what happened when I get home
ololJokerlolo 5:06 am
Wait, you said in the thread she's on facebook pretty much all day? So, she has a computer? She doesn't give you access to it though?
hagurumon31 5:07 am
no, she doesn't let me on it. especially now that I moved in with my grandmother instead, but she still didn't even when i lived with her
ololJokerlolo 5:07 am
Oh oh, sorry I'm a bit confused about that. So you live with your grandmother and aunt, or just your grandmother?
hagurumon31 5:08 am
just my grandmother
ololJokerlolo 5:10 am
So, if Anna does take some kind of lie detector test, and it says she did do some or all of the sexual stuff she says she did, what would you do then? Would you give up on her at that point? Would it make any difference whether it was with the guy or the girl? I mean I don't know all the details, but with the girl it sounded like they didn't actually have sex, but I could have read it wrong.
hagurumon31 5:11 am
i wouldn't give up on her, i'd still marry her but our lives would be ruined. she can't do anything sexual with EITHER gender.
well i don't believe in that "technical virginty" thing. imo anything sexual counts as sex, oral, anal, fingering, mutual masturbation, etc
ololJokerlolo 5:13 am
Oh I agree on that, but Jessa said "heavy petting" which is kind of vague, and means the only genital contact was over clothes. Unless you're counting the boobs as sex organs or something.
hagurumon31 5:14 am
yeah i count boobs
she did say they licked eachother's boobs but i'm p sure it's a lie
when it happened anna only told me they made out and COMPARED boobs
ololJokerlolo 5:16 am
Do you think that you might be pressuring her into having sex with someone else just to prove your claims incorrect?
hagurumon31 5:16 am
and her story about anna wanting to spare my feelings doesn't check out either because how would she have known what would upset me and what wouldn't before i told her
nah, it would be ridiculous to have sex you normally wouldn't want to have just to mess with someone
ololJokerlolo 5:17 am
It wouldn't be to mess with you though, it would be in the hopes you'd leave her alone. You're so positive she'll love you later, but even you will admit right now she hates you.
hagurumon31 5:18 am
yeah, RIGHT NOW
ololJokerlolo 5:18 am
So, right now she's capable of anything to get you away from her.
hagurumon31 5:19 am
no, nothing that drastic i'm sure
ololJokerlolo 5:21 am
And you are aware that regardless of what may happen in the future, right now pursuing her is hurting her, because she doesn't want you to right now?
hagurumon31 5:22 am
unfortunately yeah but in the end she's going to be really happy
ololJokerlolo 5:24 am
Why? What do you have that could make her happy?
hagurumon31 5:24 am
i'm going to take care of her, help her with her problems, etc
emotional stuff
ololJokerlolo 5:25 am
But you can't take care of yourself, and you don't understand empathy.
Any other guy can take care of her and help her with problems.
Those things don't even have to be done by someone in a relationship in fact.
Her friends can offer her those things too.
hagurumon31 5:26 am
no, i've seen her friends try to. it doesn't work, they're only like "aw hope you feel better", they don't provide anything that's actually useful
ololJokerlolo 5:27 am
Do you?
Every conversation I've seen seems to consist of her asking you to leave her alone.
hagurumon31 5:28 am
yeah i dunno why she did that
but it'd be much easier for me to help her with things irl rather than online
ololJokerlolo 5:29 am
She wants her friends help though, she doesn't seem to want yours.
And you can't help someone unless they want your help.
hagurumon31 5:30 am
right but when she loves me then she will want my help
ololJokerlolo 5:31 am
Can you think of any specific instances in history where someone has absolutely hated someone, and everything about them, and then suddenly fallen in love with them out of the blue?
hagurumon31 5:32 am
i haven't HEARD of any but with 6 billion people it's got to have happened before many times
ololJokerlolo 5:33 am
If Anna is your soulmate and she shouldn't date other people, why did you date Maddi?
hagurumon31 5:34 am
she asked me out, so i accepted
ololJokerlolo 5:34 am
That's it?
hagurumon31 5:34 am
well no i don't really mind if she DATES other people, just as long as nothing sexual happens
basically yeah
ololJokerlolo 5:35 am
That's still cheating though, and hurting Maddi since you don't believe she is your soulmate, so you basically lead her on.
hagurumon31 5:36 am
no she knew about anna, she said she didn't mind
ololJokerlolo 5:38 am
But it's still cheating on Anna, do you think Anna dating other people is unfair to you?
hagurumon31 5:39 am
no, as long as sexual things don't happen
ololJokerlolo 5:43 am
So, you said in one of the threads you larped sexually when you were little, or something?
hagurumon31 5:44 am
yeah in elementary school at recess i did sexual larps
ololJokerlolo 5:44 am
So you see larping as like, a sexual thing? It's something that turns you on or whatever? You related it to semi-sexual experiences?
hagurumon31 5:45 am
nono, I do nonsexual larps too
like the video with amber
hagurumon31 5:47 am
so hey i have to go
ololJokerlolo 5:47 am
Okay, no problem. Feel free to message me when you get back if you'd like.
hagurumon31 5:47 am
okay
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