Why is it so fucking hard for people over their 20's to be responsible, show initiative or not be a stupid fuck when they live with roommates?

I shared my place with people by renting rooms in a big apartment close downtown and it seems to me that I almost have to babysit those fuckers cause they can't do anything on their own. For example, if the trash bag is full in the kitchen, instead of taking it out and install a new one in the garbage, they'd rather put their trash either on top or next to it. They never clean around the kitchen either. If they make a huge fucking mess on the stove, they don't care to clean it no matter how much I bitch to them to clean around the place. Unless I clean it, nobody else ever does. They barely ever pass the broom and mop the floors. They always back up to me accusing them of being lazy fucks about how they have to work and shit... Guess what? I do too, fucker!

Nobody ever cleans the toilet either. However, cleaning around is not their only flaw. I have seen girls move in with us at some point and they didn't took 45 fucking minutes showering alone. I live with 2 other guys right now and they take fucking forever in the shower. More often than not, when I wake up, I need to take a piss or shit. It seems they go out of their way to extend their shower cause they somehow know I just woke up. The best I can do instead of shouting at the door to get out is to run all the hot water in the kitchen sink so they leave sooner.

I have this guy who I have been living with for years now who is a complete junkie of his beloved internet. He can't live without it or else he just goes apeshit. If it is down, he continiously knocks at my door since I have the router and modem to ask if the internet is fixed. He can do this several times a night. Once, we had a 300$ bill to pay since we rented a room to a guy who never shown up and the management wanted their jewgolds. I was not going to fucking pay this all by myself especially when that guy lives with me. I asked him to help me out and he said in a broken english ''I'll talk to the owner about this'' before pathetically hiding in his room. I then knocked at his door and told him it's his responsibilty to help me out cause it was said as soon as he moved in here that everything from rent to bills and bullshit like the 300$ thing that everyone splits equally. This little fucknut refused to help out at first so I casually informed him that since we were only two guys in the apartment since the guy who rented the room fucked us over by not showing up that if I have to pay this all by my own then he will be banned from internet until he does. I am pretty sure he just shat his pants right then and there. At first, he said he didn't care and wanted to move out one month earlier from the apartment since he couldn't have internet anymore. This is how desperate this fucker was. He'd rather move shit by himself and go through the process of looking for another place which compared to others around town, I charge barely nothing. He'd rather moan and cry about how he suddenly wants to be above the rules that were set for years around the place even though he lives with us because ''he doesn't want to help out and it's not his fault''. What this little prick didn't think about is that it was not mine either. Yet again, according to his logic, I should still pay for him anyway cause he does not want to. Finally, he ended up paying his part possibly because of the idea of living without internet was unbearable for him.

The most stupid shit I ever seen from a guy living with us was how he wanted to dry a white shirt of his but didn't knew where to hang it. Nevermind the doors or windows nearby. Instead, hang it on the water sprinkler system in the living room. Guess what the fuck happenned? Water fucking everywhere. He shortly moved after to avoid the cleaning fees.

This is fucking why I am moving on my own in July. Fuck roommates, seriously...